Unseen Intimacy: How to Build a Close Connection with God

Introduction

Ever thought about what it really means to have an intimate relationship with God? Let’s be real—how do you even start to connect deeply with someone you can’t see, touch, or hear? It’s a question a lot of us have, especially when we’re craving something deeper in our spiritual journey.

Think about that one person who lights up your world—just being with them makes your day better, right? That kind of closeness feels natural with someone you can physically interact with. But when it comes to God, things can feel… different. Maybe even a little intimidating.

Here’s the truth: connecting with God on a deep level is possible, and it’s beyond fulfilling. It just takes understanding a bit more about who we are and how we’re designed for this kind of intimacy.

You Are More Than Flesh and Bone

Let’s break it down. As humans, we tend to experience life in a physical way. We connect with people through what we can see, touch, and hear. But there’s so much more to us than what’s visible on the outside. (Also read: Vessels of the Kingdom: Discovering Your True Identity in Christ)

Your body is like a vessel—a home for your soul and spirit.

Your soul is where your emotions, personality, and daily decisions come from.
Your spirit, though, is the core of who you are. It’s the part of you that’s created in God’s image (Genesis 1:27) and enables you to connect with Him on a spiritual level.

Here’s something incredible: God created us to house the fullness of the Trinity—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. But He didn’t stop there. God is completed in what’s called the Foursquare:

Father, Son, Holy Spirit, and Ecclesia (The Body of Christ).

This might sound like a big concept, but it’s key to understanding your role in intimacy with God. The Ecclesia—us, the Body of Christ—completes the fullness of God’s design. You’re not just invited into this divine relationship; you’re a vital part of it.

So, here’s the bottom line: You are a spiritual being living in a natural body. And because of that, you have the ability to connect with God intimately, even though He’s unseen.

God Is Spirit

Here’s what Jesus said:
“God is spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” (John 4:24)

And Romans 8:6 reminds us:
“For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the spirit is life and peace.”

Let me share a personal story to make this real.

One morning, just after 3 a.m., I woke up with this intense urge to spend time with God. Honestly, I didn’t really know what “spending time in the Spirit” meant, but my heart was longing for something deeper. So, I made a cup of coffee, sat on the floor, and said:
“Lord, I want to spend time in the Spirit, like Your Word says. But all I’ve got are a few words in my spiritual language. If I’m going to spend three hours praying in tongues, this might get awkward!”

I started with the few words I knew in tongues, and something amazing happened. Suddenly, a fresh wave of words filled my spirit. In faith, I began to speak them out. Over the next three hours, I found myself laughing, crying, and boldly declaring things in a spiritual language that was brand new to me.

That experience? It was just a taste of what God has for those who seek Him in spirit and truth. But here’s the thing—just like any relationship, it takes time and effort to grow that connection.

The Natural Comes First

Here’s a verse that blew my mind:
“But it is not the spiritual that is first but the natural, and then the spiritual.” (1 Corinthians 15:46)

This chapter in 1 Corinthians is all about our transformation through Jesus. We’ve borne the image of Adam (the man of dust), but now we bear the image of Jesus (the man of Heaven).

So, what does this mean for intimacy with God? It means that to connect with God in the spiritual, we first need to use what He’s given us in the natural: His Word.

When you spend time in God’s Word, you’re preparing yourself for intimacy in the Spirit. Think of it like this: the Bible is your physical, tangible way of engaging with God. It’s how He speaks to you, teaches you, and reveals Himself to you.

Consume the Word

Jeremiah said it best:
“When your words came, I ate them; they were my joy and my heart’s delight.” (Jeremiah 15:16, NIV)

When we consume God’s Word—not just reading it, but really taking it in—it feeds our spirit. King David loved the Word of God too. He understood that immersing himself in Scripture was key to building his relationship with the Father.

Let’s not over complicate it: if you want to grow closer to God, start by devouring His Word. Not just a quick devotional here and there, but real, intentional time with Scripture. Memorize it, meditate on it, and let it sink deep into your heart.

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When God’s Word is in you, it becomes your weapon, your strength, and your connection to Him. As Hebrews 4:12 says, “For the Word of God is alive and active, sharper than any double-edged sword.”

Conclusion

So, how do you build an intimate relationship with God, even though you can’t physically see Him? You use what He’s given you in the natural—His Word.

When you store God’s Word in your heart, something amazing happens. You begin to speak His truth boldly, pray with authority, and experience His presence in ways you never imagined.

And remember this: Jesus is the Word (John 1:1). When you consume Scripture, you’re consuming Him—and He is the way to the Father.

And don’t forget, you are part of the Foursquare. God’s fullness is completed in His relationship with you, the Ecclesia. You’re not just a spectator in this divine connection—you’re essential to it.

Start today. Open your Bible, spend time in prayer, and let God’s Word draw you closer to His heart. The more you pursue Him, the more you’ll discover the depth of intimacy He’s waiting to share with you.

Be Blessed.

Barry.